Hello goth a question, me and my friend who are living in the eu playing on her's brothers server which is in the us and mine and her's ms is above 70-100ms and her brothers and his friends over there have the ms in the USA below 20 ms why? Can we fix this issue? Is it a fixible issue or not, btw we...

Helo i have an issue with a friend. I created a server from my game and played with a friend and we didn't play for about a month and today when he tried to join me he could not find me, and we tried the other way to join him but could not see him problem/solution?